There it was … a beautiful, hand written thank you note. Delivered to my daughter on time, thoughtfully written… perfect.
It stirred in me emotions of guilt, frustration and served as a reminder of how far God has brought me once again.
I love thank you notes.
I used to REALLY love thank you notes.
Years ago I could have told you who “owed” me a thank you note…
Wow. How shallow! But it’s the truth. I did.
I never was one to GIVE to get something in return, and yet… for some reason I felt as though if someone didn’t write a timely, thoughtful, “Thank You”… well, they simply didn’t have a grateful heart.
My pride would swell as I made sure all of MY thank you notes would get out on time… never missing a beat in my organizational kingdom of artificial perfectionism.
As we added children, I made efforts to keep up my charade.
Over the past two or three years, lots of things have gotten fuzzy. Including who I needed to write a thank you note to, and for what.
“Did I write a thank you to that person??”
“Did I just THINK I wrote a thank you, and didn’t? Did I write them TWO instead? Oh where is that list…???”
“I really hope someone doesn’t think I’m ungrateful.”
Nothing like a little humble pie to help you realize how judgemental you have been. *gulp*
With our last child a friend gave me a baby gift, with a note that said…”Please do not write a thank you note for this gift, that is part of your present. I know you are thankful.”
Wow. Now that was thoughtful. Especially to someone with 8 small children, one of them being a new baby.
It seems some of the things we end up writing thank you notes for, can actually add stress to an already stressful, and busy time. Wanting to know someone received a gift is one thing… I get that. I just no longer assume someone isn’t grateful, or doesn’t prioritize well if I don’t EVER get a thank you note.
Maybe they are just busy serving God in other ways… and mean well? Just. Like. Me.
Honestly, I can’t even tell you if someone owed me a thank you any more. I couldn’t keep track of that if I wanted to.
I think that’s how you know you have a quiver full. Your heart is full… and your mind is over flowing. Pride and selfishness take a back seat to serving, teaching and serving some more.
I think God did that to me on purpose. [ Gee, you think? ] I’m so busy with little people and serving – that things, such as focusing on who owes me a thank you note for what – just never enters the radar.
We do require our kids to write thank you notes for gifts. I’m sure I’ve missed a few of those over the years too. (So if you’re reading this, and we’ve forgotten you – please, know we are still grateful and love you!) and Please accept my sincerest apologies!
The great news is … God doesn’t require a thank you note for what He has done for us…. for ALL He has given us. He doesn’t keep score either, like I often did.
Instead, He just asks that we have a grateful spirit. That we acknowledge our Maker. I think a GREAT “thank you” to God is just using what He has already given us. Our minds, our bodies… our Spirits – to serve and glorify Him!
How are those workouts coming? Have you checked out even those little 10 minute workouts? Praying you’re having a peaceful week before Christmas!
“Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful,
and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe…” – Hebrews 12:28